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Originally Posted by go_a_way1
 Thanks I needed that today. I bet my ex ended up the same. She was going down a dark path when we first got together but I "saved" her from that life... how long that lasted who knows I have no intent to contact her |
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Just a shitty turn of circumstances for myself, really. I knew that she did some drugs at times, sometimes with me there, but it was a once in a blue moon thing. I did my best to try and steer her away from it.
We kinda broke things off officially in August last year, and decided to have a fresh start with each other (which, looking back now, fucking LOL) and I was trying to get serious about things. I got my life super on track since then, have had an awesome job for almost 2 years, saving up and almost have enough money for a down payment on a house, basically checking all the boxes. She was just kind of stagnant in the growing up department.
I was trying to make things work with her, and get back together officially with her. Then out of the blue one day, she just told me things weren't going anywhere, and she ended it all late February. Just sucks cause I put a lot of effort in to meet her expectations.
She's probably the first girl that I actually really cared about, and thought of marrying. To the point I asked my mom about getting a pre-nup drawn up for the ring my grand father gave to my grand mother, since I figured I'd be with her forever and ever. But, such is life.
Drugs and partying were/are more important to her. And her selfish choice makes me realize that she does truly deserve whatever the outcome is with her situation.
Guess that's what happens when you're 24, and comfortable in your life and you're dating a 21 year old who "needs to find herself"